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New Book Reveals the “Secret Language” That Turns Marital Conflict Into Deeper Love

New Book Reveals the "Secret Language" That Turns Marital Conflict Into Deeper Love
This isn’t a book of theories; it’s a practical, step-by-step guide filled with real conversation scripts, proven techniques for heated moments, and daily connection rituals that take just minutes but create lasting intimacy.
Stop Fighting, Start Connecting: A Proven Blueprint to Transform Any Marriage

Los Angeles, CA - According to marriage coach and faith-based clinical therapist Cyle Chapman, 87% of couples who feel disconnected aren’t facing a communication problem at all—they’re facing an intimacy problem disguised as a communication problem. In his groundbreaking new book, Stop Fighting, Start Connecting: The Secret Language of Intimate Marriage That Turns Every Conversation Into Deeper Love (Kindle Edition, available for pre-order now), Chapman unveils the intimacy blueprint that has transformed thousands of marriages from cold and distant to warm, connected, and deeply fulfilling. Drawing from over 20 years as a Life Coach, Board-Certified Faith-Based Clinical Therapist, and Pastor, Chapman introduces couples to the “secret language” of marriage—heart-to-heart communication that allows both partners to feel truly seen, heard, and understood, even in the middle of conflict.

This isn’t a book of theories; it’s a practical, step-by-step guide filled with real conversation scripts, proven techniques for heated moments, and daily connection rituals that take just minutes but create lasting intimacy.

Inside, readers will discover:

  • The Four Layers of True Intimacy, most couples never reach—and why common communication advice often fails.
  • The Communication Killers Assessment to identify hidden patterns sabotaging your connection.
  • The Heart-Listening Technique that can make your spouse feel more understood in five minutes than they have in months.
  • The Fair Fighting Framework that turns disagreements into opportunities for deeper connection.
  • The Sacred Language of Physical Intimacy that rebuilds passion without shame or rejection.


Whether you’re barely hanging on or desire to take your marriage to the next level, Stop Fighting, Start Connecting offers tools to transform your relationship, starting with your very next conversation.

Pre-Order Information

If you want to stop fighting about everything and start connecting at the heart level without walking on eggshells or pretending everything is fine, order your copy today!

Stop Fighting, Start Connecting is currently available for pre-order on Amazon with delivery beginning September 1, 2025.

About the Author

Cyle Chapman has spent more than two decades guiding couples from conflict to connection. Through coaching, workshops, books, and speaking engagements, he has helped thousands restore emotional, physical, and spiritual intimacy. His compassionate, faith-centered approach is rooted in the belief that communication is not just about talking; it’s about healing, understanding, and intentional connection.

For interviews, speaking requests, or review copies, please contact:

Cyle Chapman

Website: www.cylechapman.com

Email: info@cylechapman.com

Phone: 562-713-4855 or 323-603-7861

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